Category: Social


Series 1 : Post 4 : Why do women love gossip?

Summed up the narrator seems to think: Women rely more on social manipulation to get what they want, because they are physically weaker than men generally are. Where women cannot impose their physical will to get what they want like men, they use manipulation to accomplish the same goal. Yikes… Well, I don’t know what manipulation has to do with gossip, but I presume that the narrator is lumping gossip in with the outcomes of said gossip. Which could mean after the “gossip” is, well gossip’d, there could be newly adopted perspectives about the person who is being gossiped about....


Punting Black History Month – It’s just not the same.

Things weren’t always this way… When I was young, a long long time ago, I was just given the facts of what was going on at the time. I recently went to see a good….well GREAT movie, Hidden Figures. My 10 year old daughter came along. This movie was right up her alley. See she joined an after school STEM program for the girls at her school. And everyone came to the school to watch the girls launch rockets they built after school. Great movie, at a great time! Now lets get on to why I’m ‘punting black history month’. ...


Judge More and Judge Often

I need people to be okay with Judging others. In fact, I believe we should Judge more, but understand the differences between Judging and Condemning. Condemning should be considered OFF LIMITS, and something we should NEVER do. I think, if we evaluate HOW we judge, we can judge more appropriately without pigeonholing people into one-dimensional characterizations that condemn them never to do any better or any worse. Here are some examples of condemning:


Chivalry – Should it be gender specific? Does it apply to men today? Should women demand it of men?

What do we think Chivalry is? What was it considered to be in years past? Is the world now at a place where acts of support and protection from men toward women, from the strong in favor of the weak, should be disregarded? Should these acts be viewed as antiquated displays of male dominance vs. simple and kind acts? Should acts of chivalry be restricted to the earliest memories of our most senior citizens, described fondly to younger generations as artifacts of “the good ol’ days”? If you don’t have a position on this issue, I hope that are after...


Insecure Men Ruin Everything

How Insecure Men Ruin Everything! Insecure Men Cannot Be Trusted Under no circumstances can you, or should you trust an insecure man. EVEN if he is your father or husband. Don’t confuse this to mean you should disrespect or abandon, the men in your life if you find some truisms in this article, or anything horrible like that. I’m just saying you cannot trust insecure men…..they don’t think the way they ‘should’ yes SHOULD. Here’s why. Let’s say you know a man, he’s a boaster. One of those guys that always talks about himself. ALL THE TIME. You never stop...


Can Shame be a Motivator?

Shame used to be a tool used to Motivate, now what is it? I have a “way” of looking at things that, can sometimes, upset or frustrate some of my audience. I’ve gotten a lot of positive response on the blog, and a lot of negative feedback as well. I’m not ashamed of what I write or how it might come off. I care more about the content I provide for you here. I’m not ASHAMED. Which is also the subject of this post.  SHAME. a feeling of guilt, regret, or sadness that you have because you know you have...


Indulgence STOP – NO GIVE ME MORE?

Indulgence Defined : the behavior or attitude of people who allow themselves to do what they want or who allow other people to do what they want : the act of doing something that you enjoy but that is usually thought of as wrong or unhealthy : something that is done or enjoyed as a special pleasure Interesting. I took a few interesting points from it. Indulgence is Reasonable. Indulgence is Expected. Over-indulging has consequences, and labels. Under-indulging must be a ‘thing’ too right?


3 ways Squishy-Men can throw us all out of balance.

I’d like to discuss how a man ‘Reasonably’ SHOULD and SHOULD NOT act. Remember, this is the ReasonableDose Blog….there is not really a right and wrong here, necessarily. We’ll just attempt to look over our lives, the facts we know to be true based on the experiences we’ve had, and our own truths. Then we come out on the other side with a judgement. Yes a JUDGEMENT! ‘I don’t know that it is bad to judge, that seems to be human nature. Condemnation is not for human consumption, it must be left to higher powers.’ Justin McKnight – ReasonableDose As you read...


Women are Banks!

It might be wise to look at women, sort of like – BANKS. Reasonably, I think that a bank, is one of the best comparisons I could make. I don’t mean to offend, but I have my reasons: There are a few types of banks, Investment, Retail, Commercial, and some others. Take a look at how I break all this down. Then ask yourself these questions……


Reasonable Husbands – what are they?

Husbands – How do they think? The good ones I mean. In this post, I’d like to explore the issue of Reasonable Husbands and their Leadership of their families and their marriages. Should a husband accept all of his wife’s opinions? That sounds bad, I know….. Should a husband eagerly split, or allow control to be split 50%-50% in the marriage? Should I contribute my half or everything emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically?

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